3rd party feedback

How to deal with feedback? 

What others think? 

Say? 

Maybe behind our back?


First

If everything is always awesome

That's not really helpful for us

At all


Maybe

That's not the whole truth then

Or

We're not pushing our envelope


Sure

In today's world

There's going to be great feedback

If we (always?) win


But

We're showing (off)

Something

That we're already good at


Here

We're looking for 

Development

Hence challenges


Striving 

Towards higher

Longer term goals

Struggle forward


From the outside

That often won't look as pretty

Maybe it seems like we're stuck

For a while


So if between people

We're not working or interacting

With similar mindsets

We will also get negative feedback


Maybe exclusively

 

Misunderstanding 

Not understanding 

Adversity

Are we somewhat crazy


Maybe jealousy at its core

Envy

Knowing, or sensing 

One is stuck also


So what to do about it

Maybe not daring to look 

Bad

Or not as good


Once we've sufficiently checked

That we're not overly 

Obsessed

On the wrong track


That the current persistence is 

Not futile

We're really opening a door

At least for ourselves


How about practice where

When no one is watching

Or find others

With the same mindset


But how to always end up with 

Something constructive 

From feedback?

What other people think?


We can choose to know 

What people think

By asking for it

"Tell me more." 


Take that in

Consider it

Sleep on it

Assess it


Talk to others 

With different 

Viewpoints

Backgrounds


In the end

Even "negative" 

Or dismissive feedback 

Can be positive


To challenge our 

Assumptions

Force us to have good 

Reasons 


And communicate them 

Well

To those who matter 

To us


And with that

Negative feedback 

Might actually reinforce

That we're on the right track :)


Cause 

At the end of the day

We're accountable

To ourselves